The books did, however, push a few taboo topics into mainstream conversation, including BDSM and sexual mentorship.
Intrigued by the verboten topic of older women showing younger men new paths to pleasure and curious about the economic concept of sexual supply and demand — but not necessarily to acquire an enthusiastic new lover — I placed an ad on Craigslist in December:. Are you looking for a sexual mentor? Instead of masturbating between the sheets at every opportunity, why not spend some time with a skilled lover who will teach you how to please a woman?
Just imagine the possibilities. Within 10 minutes, my inbox was flooded with more than replies.
The ad was quickly flagged. I would love to have an experienced woman teach me the secrets to pleasing her. My takeaway? There are a lot of young and hungry men out there who want to step up their sex skills with an older woman.
For most women I know, exploring sexual pleasure was not something we were ever taught or encouraged to do. Sex should be fun and playful. I encourage exploration and advocate for pleasure.
Older women bring confidence and years of practice to the bedroom. A woman who knows what she wants and communicates that knowledge can be a huge turn-on. In my experience, the big difference between an educational experience and robbing the cradle is the erotic know-how a skilled woman offers. Imagine sexual mentorship as a rite of passage, where partners discuss what turns them on and which boundaries they are willing to push.
With time and practice, they develop greater cognizance and connection. Most recently, I doled out practical advice about how to please a woman orally and use sex toys to a local couple two-plus decades my junior.
In my earlys, I schooled a first-year law school student on the ins and outs of anal play. He presented the role play; I was willing to explore. My casual relationships often outlast their committed counterparts.
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